I'm not sure... Maybe just something pinned to your shirt? Neither crown nor collar is good for you. [She frowns, as if trying to pin it down] But I suppose a crown of flowers is different from a crown of metal.

[She swishes her skirts a moment before sitting down, curling her legs to the side of her] You neither want rule or to be ruled. Perhaps to simply lie among the flowers would be better fitting. Something free and peaceful.